A Crash Course in Female Anatomy

Walking around a college campus, you will encounter students with blonde hair and blue eyes or brown hair and brown eyes or even red hair and green eyes. My point is that the possibilities are endless and dependent on genetics. The way the outer female anatomy looks is just as dependent on genetics as having blue eyes.

Every female’s labia look different. Some are longer or shorter than others, but this is completely natural. Contrary to popular opinion of people my age, labia size has no correlation to how sexually active a person is.

“Having a lose vagina means your girl is a hoe”.

False. The vagina naturally stretches during arousal and when it well lubricated. If a girl’s vagina is “loose” during sex it means you’re doing something right. The vagina is an amazing muscle. If a vagina can stretch 10cm for a baby to come out of it, clearly having a lot of sex won’t stretch it out that much.

The porn industry has heightened the misunderstandings of female anatomy. Most college age boys have watched porn at least once in their lives. Porn stars always have “perfect” bodies with small labia’s. Boys learn to expect this and when they see something different they try to justify it.

This is a prime example of double standards between men and women. Women that embrace their sexuality are punished by society in every way possible. Women can’t control if they have green eyes, so why are they expected to control how big their labia are.

I’m struggling to understand why people think anatomy determined by genetics can be linked to how much sex a female has. Even if this was true, why is there not a part of male anatomy that could determine how much sex they have?

Teens Gone Wild

 

I came across a very appalling article and want to share with you. Apparently, a 15 year old boy threatened to “kill all the girls” at his school because none of the cheerleaders wanted to send him naked pictures. As a result, he was arrested and charged with telephone harassment and threatening violence in the school setting.

 Why are us females expected to expose ourselves? And why do some men feel the right to get upset that we don’t want to share our bodies with them through texts. It’s disgusting and unacceptable.

I have a friend that dealt with a similar situation, but not as extreme. Kyra* was texting her boyfriend, Joe* and he asked if she could “send some nudes”. Kyra replied saying “No I’m not doing that”. Later that day Joe called Kyra to break up with her, and he went on a rant on twitter complaining about how “childish” anonymous was for not sending the pictures. 

Joe was wrong to end things with Kyra all because she didn’t want to send the picture. Why is that so important to him and their relationship? We will never know. I felt terribly sorry for Kyra, but it was good that she learned what type of person he was very fast. 

This brings me back to the situation with the boy threatening to kill the girls at his high school, there is no reason he should try to end anyone’s life over a naked photo. That was a very scary situation, it could’ve ended VERY badly. Us women are looked down upon and it’s not fair. There needs to be a change in this society and fast!

Joe* and Kyra* = names have been changed

Key to Happiness

 In this crazy world it’s important to remember to love yourself ladies. Love yourself on the inside and out. Who else can love you more than yourself?

I think now a days we get too carried away by what others think. Often we are too focused on what others may think or say about us, whether you’d like to admit it or not. 

Back when I was in elementary and middle school I remember my friends and classmates always told me how skinny I was. My friends loved to point out how bony I was and it got to the point where I thought something was wrong with me. I began to feel unconfident in showing my arms and legs because I grew very self-conscious. It was a tough battle. I never thought about how others words affected me, until now.

As I grew older I developed to have a mind of my own. I stopped caring what people thought of me.  I’m 5’4, brown skinned, with long black hair and dark brown eyes. Inside is a smart, funny and carefree young woman. Being skinny was one of my biggest insecurities for a while. It was so simple to just compare myself to others. I use to always think having a big butt or being a little thicker would make me “more pretty” or acceptable, but that’s not true.

 I learned to love myself just the way I am and I wouldn’t want to be anyone else at this point in my life. 

You should strive hard to accept and love your flaws! At the end of the day, what you think of yourself is all that matters. Don’t let anyone change you!

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