Walking around a college
campus, you will encounter students with blonde hair and blue eyes or brown
hair and brown eyes or even red hair and green eyes. My point is that the
possibilities are endless and dependent on genetics. The way the outer female
anatomy looks is just as dependent on genetics as having blue eyes.
Every female’s labia look
different. Some are longer or shorter than others, but this is completely
natural. Contrary to popular opinion of people my age, labia size has no
correlation to how sexually active a person is.
“Having a lose vagina
means your girl is a hoe”.
False. The vagina
naturally stretches during arousal and when it well lubricated. If a girl’s
vagina is “loose” during sex it means you’re doing something right. The vagina
is an amazing muscle. If a vagina can stretch 10cm for a baby to come out of
it, clearly having a lot of sex won’t stretch it out that much.
The porn industry has heightened
the misunderstandings of female anatomy. Most college age boys have watched porn at least once in their lives. Porn stars always have “perfect” bodies
with small labia’s. Boys learn to expect this and when they see something different
they try to justify it.
This is a prime example
of double standards between men and women. Women that embrace their sexuality
are punished by society in every way possible. Women can’t control if they have
green eyes, so why are they expected to control how big their labia are.
I’m struggling to
understand why people think anatomy determined by genetics can be linked to how
much sex a female has. Even if this was true, why is there not a part of male
anatomy that could determine how much sex they have?
I'm very glad that you are straightforward and identify the situation without sugar coating. Identifying that the porn industry is largely responsible for males having double standards for women was eye opening because I did not even think about connecting the two.
ReplyDeleteI really appreciate the straightforward, factual, nature of this post. The strongest part of this post was the last sentence, where you turned the double standard around with a rhetorical question.
ReplyDeleteI love how bold you are with your honest opinions. These double standards need to be addressed as an issue, and I am glad you have the courage to do so.
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